Obituaries  //  Chartered December 1st, 1916 

   
 
   James E. Graham, Jr.
August 23, 1922  —  December 3, 1999

A deer and an antelope were out on the range munching grass when the deer looked up to see a cloud of dust headed his way. It got closer and closer until the cloud came right up to where he stood.

A buffalo appeared from the cloud, walked up to the deer and whispered, "You're about the ugliest, mangiest, sorriest excuse for a ruminant I've ever seen." With that, the buffalo whirled around and charged back onto the range.

The antelope wandered over and inquired, "What was that all about?" To which the deer replied, "I think I just heard a discouraging word."

Rotarian James Ewart Graham, Jr., DDS, a long-time member of the Music Committee, enjoyed leading the club in song, especially when the song was Home on the Range. And nearly every time he led the song, he told that story. Jim, 77, died unexpectedly December 3.

A Charlotte native, he graduated from Central High School, Lees McRae College and the Medical College of Virginia. He joined the Navy as a Lt.j.g. and served in World War II. Following the war he remained in the Naval Reserve, retiring as a Captain in the Dental Corps.

Jim practiced dentistry in Charlotte for 44 years. He served as president of the Charlotte Dental Society, the Fifth District of the N.C. Dental Society and the N.C. State Board of Dental Examiners. He was a member of the American Academy of Dental Practice Administration, the American Dental Association and a fellow in the American College of Dentists. He was a member of the First Presbyterian Church and sang in the Adult Choir.

Jim joined Charlotte Rotary in 1983 and resigned in 1998, an error, he said, that was corrected recently when he rejoined the club in May. He was known for his wit and sense of humor and as a member of the Club's Good Ole Boy Choir.

Jim is survived by his wife Betty Dehn of Michigan whom he met in Bagnoli, Italy, during the war. In addition to Betty, he is survived by five children, six grandchildren and a brother. Memorials may be made to the donor's choice.

The Club will make a contribution to our Student Scholarship Fund in Jim's memory.